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My son recently turned four and he wanted to have a “truck” party.  This boy is all about trucks!  So we invited his four buddies from church and we created a “truck play party.”  Here’s the invitations I made…I used a fastener so the truck actually dumps.  Most of the moms said their sons liked to be able to play with the invitation.I put the date, time, and contact information on the back of the truck.  I googled “dump truck” coloring page and made my own template.  I used colored scrapbook paper I had on hand.

We have a big family room.  More space can be utilized when the couches and chairs are put up against the wall.  So I created a couple different “play stations” and the boys could rotate from one to the next.  Most of the parents stayed with their kids so I had plenty of help.

Besides balloons and streamers I made a few road signs.  I used the backs of pizza boxes or whatever cardboard I could find in our recycle bin.  I did most of them free hand.  They do not look professional looking, but my four year old son does not care.

A preschool teacher once told me that it does not matter what you put in the sand/water table.  Kids love to play in them!  I bought some dry beans in the bulk food section.  They are perfect for loading bulldozers and dump trucks.

We have aquired a lot of Little People items over the years.  My oldest set up a Little People town.

Then we set up our wooden train set on a card table.  This was pretty popular.  The boys all took turns playing trains.My friend Trisha who has contributed to Everyday Mom a few times gave me this cupcake idea.  I made regular white cupcakes and frosted them with chocolate frosting.  Then I added crushed Oreos.  I lined up all the cupcakes in one of my son’s dump trucks.

I am not a cake decorator, but this was a simple and fun idea I could handle.  And he loved it! Instead of party favors, each boy got to make a truck and car t-shirt.  We all wore  similar ones I made a few days before.  These are “reverse stencil” shirts  from Family Fun.  It was my first time doing it.

It is fairly easy.  You cut out the shapes with clear contact paper.  You place them on the shirt.  Then spray around the stencil with t-shirt paint.  I used Tulip t-shirt paint that comes in spray bottles.  I found the white t-shirt works better than the gray

We kept the party to a little less than two hours and that was enough time.  Everyone had a great time!


I wanted to make my own Advent Calendar this year and I saw this idea on the Mother Huddle to make a sack calendar.

But instead of sewing each individual bag, I made tiny versions of the the “no sew” purse I saw in Family Fun Magazine.  I followed these directions except I used a soup bowl to trace my circles instead of a 20 diameter plate. 

I did the colors of Advent.  Two weeks the sacks are purple, then one week of pink, one week of purple, and the last sack in white.  I used maroon and white ribbon.

Each sack is labeled with a number that corresponds to that day in December.  I used a star template and cut out green and pink stars.  Inside each sack is a piece of candy and a Bible verse.  I looked at a few different Advent devotionals and chose the Jesse Tree which begins at God creating the world and ends at Jesus’s birth.  It highlights God’s promises and the people He called in the Bible. I did not buy candy for it.  We used what was leftover from Halloween.  That way each candy is a surprise.  My kids loved stuffing the sacks with a little treat.

Then we hung it up on the wall.  We had to make sure it was high enough as the two-year is prone to pulling things off counters and walls–whatever she can get her little hands on!

I am excited to have this new family tradition.  Each day beginning December 1, we will take a sack down, open it, and reflect on the true meaning of Advent.


My daughter's Thanksgiving greeting on the family white board

About ten years ago I had the opportunity to serve as an adult leader on a mission trip to a low-income area of North Carolina.  We were assigned to a work-site where we had to clean-up and replace dry wall.  I was inside a lady’s kitchen that was ravished by Hurricane Floyd only a few weeks earlier.  I wrapped what was left of her glasses and plates in newspaper and placed them in a cardboard box while conversing with the two other high school students on our team.  One of the other adult leaders interrupted us an hour into our work and asked us to come sit on the front lawn.  Some of the guys who were in the middle of ripping out drywall asked, “Can we just continue working?”

“No,” the other adult leader said strongly, “you need to hear this.”

She gathered us all on the front lawn and the elderly lady whose home we were working on shared her story.  She told all about the strong winds and heavy rains of Hurricane Floyd and how she barely escaped.  A family member showed up to her home with a boat and she had to climb out the front window.

After her story, we went back into the house to work and piled up water-soaked mattresses, moldy furniture, stained clothing and made a pile in the front yard for the garbage men.  I looked at the items and Matthew 6:19-21 kept circulating in my brain:

19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust  destroy and where thieves break in and steal; 20 but lay up for yourselves  treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do  not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be  also.

“It could just all go away.  Like that,”  I thought.

We live in a culture where we want things and we want them yesterday.  It is getting easier and quicker to buy a new computer or the latest gadget or a new pair of Nikes with a click of a mouse.  You do not even have to leave your house, brave the rain or ice, or go from store to store.  Yet it takes just one hurricane or one tornado or one fire or one robbery or one fall of the economy for it to go away.

I am not implying that this Thanksgiving weekend you should avoid the Black Friday crowds or get rid of  your iPod or worse yet live in fear that a hurricane is going to destroy your home.   Please remember that the stuff of this earth is temporary and it is not going to give you the all surpassing joy that Paul talks about in Philippians 3:8.

“I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ.”

Because of my time spent in low-income areas and living on a beans and rice budget for years and yet seeing God provide, I have grown in my faith.  I like my computer, my mini van, my digital camera, and my vacations to the Midwest & Canada.  And don’t get me wrong I want a nice pair of boots and a road bike.  But somehow it just doesn’t matter as much.  Stuff doesn’t carry the same priority as it did years ago.

The Lord gives.  The Lord takes away.  The Lord provides.


I set up a facebook page for Everyday Mom.  Please “like” us.  Once we hit 25 posts I am going to do another giveaway.  To give you a little hint–it is going to be a coffee giveaway plus some homemade goods my daughter and I will be putting together for the holidays.

Have a safe and pleasant Thanksgiving!  Oregon is experiencing massive amounts of rain and wind these last few days.  Thankful for a warm, dry place to sit and relax tonight.

 


I like to do crafts with my preschoolers, but sometimes I shy away.  There have been instances I pick projects that are too complex.  I end up making the craft while they sit and watch, yawn, and say, “Mom, can I go play?”  We have done a few things this fall that have been worthy of our time.  We have created some memories and fun traditions along the way.

Two of my mom friends and I all have kids around the same age.  Our oldest children are now in kindergarten or first grade at three different schools.  My daughter is in private school and her schedule is different from the public schools.  So we decided to do a Veteran’s Day party playdate since everyone was off school.  It was the perfect time to do so before the crunch of the holiday schedules.

We did the perfect craft…caramel apples!

We used honey crisp because they are tart and a good raw "hand fruit" apple, but you can use whatever kind you want.

 We started by sticking popsicle sticks in each apple.

After you dip the apple in the caramel, add M&M's, nuts, sprinkles--whatever you have in your baking cupboard

There are a couple different recipes I have found to make the caramel.  We unwrapped about 4o caramel squares, added a tablespoon of milk and put it all in a microwave safe dish.  After cooking in the microwave for a few minutes, I stirred it like crazy.  We quickly had to dip all the apples before the caramel hardened.  You can also use water and do it over the stove as well.

Of course my kid’s favorite thing about the whole activity was eating the extra toppings and leftover caramel.  We pulled the pretzels out of the snack cupboard and dipped them in the caramel.

Another Thanksgiving activity which can easily become a tradition is making a hand turkey table cloth.   I was excited to find this one on How Does She.

I used an old white queen sized bed sheet I have had for years.  I pulled out the fall colored acrylic paint I had in my craft cupboard.

I helped my children paint their own hands with a regular paintbrush.  The older two did not need as much help as a the two-year old.I set up the “Painting station” on a big piece of cardboard.  I actually had to make the brown paint because I was all out of brown.  I mixed red, blue, yellow, and green until it got to a nice fall looking brown color.

Then each child stamped their own hand turkey on the sheet.  I touched it up a little bit in places the paint did not reach.  Then they wrote their names.

I also wrote the year under each turkey because I think this will become a long-standing tradition.  Then they had to share what they were thankful.  My oldest wrote it out herself with a dark permanent marker.  I wrote out what the younger two shared.

Then I had my preschooler make Thanksgiving placemats.  A few weeks ago when the leaves were a bright vibrant red color, we gathered a whole bunch in a plastic bag.  We were actually in a Wal-Mart parking lot.  I pressed the leaves in books in the garage for about a week.

 Then my son glued them onto construction paper using a glue stick.

Then I used clear contact paper you can usually find in the kitchen section of department stores.  I put the contact paper over his leaf creations.

There you go!  Fall placemats for the Thanksgiving meal!


We try to put soup on our family meal plan once week.  It saves money, you can use items you already have on hand, and it is quick and easy.  There is always one or two nights out of the week one of us has to be somewhere at 7 PM for a meeting.

The challenge I am finding with soup is that Rob eats gluten-free.  Which means no noodles or pasta unless it’s rice based.  His gluten-free pasta is expensive and it’s not economical for us all to eat it.  Second of all my kids are a little picky and would prefer chicken noodle out of the can over anything homemade.

However I made this last week and everyone loved it.  Even the two-year old emptied her bowl.

What you need:

  • 1 can (28 ounces) diced tomatoes, undrained (I actually did one small can of diced and one small can of stewed)
  • 2 cups chicken broth
  • 2 cups cubed cooked chicken breast
  • 1 cup frozen corn
  • 2 celery ribs with leaves, chopped
  • 1 can (6 ounces) tomato paste
  • 1/4 cup dried lentils, rinsed
  • 1 tablespoon sugar
  • 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
  • 2 teaspoons dried parsley flakes
  • 1 teaspoon dried marjoram

Combine all the ingredients in a slow cooker.  Cover and cook on low for about 6-8 hours.  It makes about eight servings.

I’m linking this up with Life As A Mom’s Frugal Friday


I never dreamed how much I would enjoy watching my kids play

I always wanted kids.  Just not as quickly as some of the girls I was friends with in college and after graduation.  Being a mom was something I looked forward to.  But being a stay at home mom intimidated me.

I went through several years in this insecurity.   I remember taking care of my nephew when he was a few months old.  I loved the cuddle time, taking him on a walk, and laying on the floor among a sea of musical toys.  But it did not come naturally.  I remember thinking, “I could not do this all day.”  The morning and afternoon went by slow and I was looking forward to returning to the refuge of my office the next morning.

A few years later I was working at an after school care program in a Christian school.  There was this sweet little blonde headed girl whose hair was nearly white.  Her face lit up a room and I loved the days she was schedule to be in “after school care.”  One afternoon I arrived out on the playground rounding up my school kids.  She came racing toward me with excitement in her voice, “Mrs. T!  Mrs T!  Guess what?” she yelled.

“What?” I answered.

“I’m not coming to After School Care anymore!  My mom quit her job and decided to stay home with me!” she declared.

I was sad to see her go, but excited for the afternoons gained with her mom.  I did not have kids at the time, but that incident always stayed on my mind.

My oldest turned six in September

My oldest turned six in September

I have been a stay at home mom now for six years.  God has molded me into someone less selfish and more selfless.  Someone less prideful and more humble.  Someone less self-centered and more

My three munchkins

sacrificial.  Someone less restless and discontent and more peaceful.  God used all three of my children, my husband, and several mentors and mom friends on “my stay at home mom” journey.  I know not everyone can be a stay at home.  I realize it is not possible due to many different circumstances. For myself, I relish the new things I gained and not focus on what I left behind.


We got Christmas card pictures taken early this year while the leaves were still in their red, oranges, and yellows.  I just discovered Tiny Prints which has over 458 designs for Christmas cards!!  Wow.  I might need to book off a couple hours one of these nights to look at all of the designs.

Like this one…a fun circular cards or

Or how fun would this be?  No longer do you have to choose just one pose, but you can narrow it down eight.

I can’t wait to get started!


I have not had the greatest track record mood wise when it comes to the holidays.  I spent most of Christmas 2006 sick in bed.   Then I passed the flu/stomach bug/plague or whatever you want to call it to my husband on the 26th.  In 2007 I was caring for a newborn boy who had no interest whatsoever in sleeping.  I remember calling my family in the Midwest crying and wishing they could get on the next plane to Oregon and rescue me from the chaos. In 2008 my little boy who was age one was growing in his eye teeth and was absolutely miserable.  I showed up to the Candlelight service and burst into tears even before it started.  The last two years were a little bit better.  However, last year on December 26th I fell into an emotional anxiety ridden roller coaster due partially from exhaustion and also from a hormone imbalance.  It took me several months before I recovered.

I dislike how the holidays breed exhaustion.  I remember someone telling me how much they loved the peacefulness of January.  There has to be a way to make the holidays both fun and not complete push over the edge.  So this is my own set of personal goals to keep from slipping into “bah-hambug” mode.

1.  I will not turn on the 24/7 Christmas music station until the day after Thanksgiving AT THE EARLIEST.  Yes, this music pumps me up, but it starts to drive me wacky to the point I despise it.

2.  I will not complain about my husband’s busy work schedule especially because Christmas falls on a Sunday this year which means one less church service to lead.

3.  I will try to exercise at least 3-5 times a week during the month of December

4.  I will begin to pack for our Christmas vacation to the Midwest at least five days in advance.

5.  I will do some sort of giving project with my kids.

6.  I will stay home from a holiday party if I am already drained and exhausted.  For some of you this is very easy to do.  For us extroverts, it is challenging.  We seize opportunities to hang out with large groups of people.

7.  I will start working on my handmade gifts in mid November (already started on them!)

8.  I will do a special holiday related activity with each of my children.  I did this last year and it was the highlight of my Christmas season.

9.  I will do the Advent Calendar with my children.  I will not be overly hard on myself if we miss a few days.

10.  I will watch National lampoons Christmas Vacation with Rob even though I have seen it at least 27 times, but I know it is a family movie.  It is important to him.  Besides I laugh so hard on “the electruted cat” scene that I make Rob rewind it over and over again.


This week the youngest child said goodbye to her pacifier aka “her pipe.”  We were pretty intentional about implenting “pacifier in the crib only” when our kids turned a year old.  Though we really cheated on this with Child #3.  The oldest two gave up theirs completely around eighteen months.  I got tired of losing pacifiers, leaving them at people’s houses plus my youngest prefers these weird circular “pipes” that are almost double the cost of the cheapie ones.  We joke she already has expensive taste.  Since the youngest is more temper tantrum prone (and being the baby probably has something to do with it) I waited until she turned two.

With my oldest, I simply had her say, “Bye bye pipes!” and had her throw them in a garbage bag.  And that was the end of that.  With my son, I tried something more creative.  I had him put his pacifiers in a manilla envelope, seal it, and put it in the on the front porch.  I told him the “Pipe Fairy” would pick it up and then bring him something in return.  The next morning I had a manilla envelope filled with match box cars as a reward.  Needless to say, the oldest child (who was four at the time) was more into it than my son.  He did not really get it.  He had grown so attatched to his blanket by that point that the pipes were secondary.  He did not really miss them.

The smartest decision I made with Child #3 was choosing to give up her pipes on a day I had energy and was in a good mood i.e. a day when the anxiety is minimal.  I figured if she did not nap, I could handle it better than on a day I was in a crummy “I-need-everyone-out-my-space” state of mind.  So far she has done great at bedtime and only woke up briefly one night–and put herself back to sleep.  No more searching for pacifiers in the dark at 4 AM.  Napping has not gone as well, but at least she is staying in her room for a good hour and a half.



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