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Life runs smoother when you have a meal plan!  It makes a BIG difference.  I am happy to be back in menu planning mode after a short hiatus.

Here’s what we are eating this week…

Monday:  Daddy/Daughter date to Red Lobster, younger two kids had BFD (breakfast for dinner) which included chocolate chip pancakes and scrambled eggs.  I had Taco Bell later on.  :)

Tuesday:  My husband’s delicious gumbo.  He makes it during his lunch break and it’s ready by 6 PM.  My husband rocks!

Wednesday:  Banquet Dumplings and Chicken in a box (we all are going to youth group at 6:15 PM and it’s going to be a busy night)

Thursday:  Tortilla Casserole - one of our family signature meals

Friday:  My husband’s homemade pizza

Saturday:  Out to eat after family pictures

Sunday:  Dinner on your own

I’m linking this up with Menu Plan Monday


I shared many frugal household tips in  50 ways to stretch a dollar last fall.  Tip #14 was emptying out your change daily and putting in a jar.  Not just emptying out your purse or wallet.  I often find change in the couch cushions or the bottom of the washer. 

We went awhile without turning in the change.  The coins in jar were piling up and spilling over onto the fireplace mantle.  My husband brought in all the change while I was away in Michigan.  And he walked out of the bank with $125.00.

I know it is not the same winning a cash prize.  But it sure feels that way!  An extra $125.00 to put towards something.  If it’s a tight month that can make a difference.

I love our little change jar!

I am linking this with Life As A Mom Frugal Friday


One of the benefits of Instant Netflix is you can watch entire seasons of TV programs that have long been off the air.  My husband and I are working our way through Fox’s 24 and we’re currently in Season 2 from 2002.  And I’m hooked!  I was laughing when I saw on the 24 facebook fan page that someone was asking if there is a 12 step program for a “24 addiction.”

I was watching an old interview on You Tube from Fox News with some of the 24 cast.  Most of them had no idea the show would win so many awards.  They said at the time they were shooting the pilot, they were not even sure a network would pick up the show.

Isn’t that the way it goes with most TV programs? No one wanted American Idol until Fox took a chance on it.

Isn’t that the way it goes with most big ideas? It starts with a single thought.  Something that begins in a conversation with someone.  Or perhaps an “a-ha” moment.

I have been a part of the mom’s group MOPS International since 2006.  This now worldwide organization started in 1973 by a group of moms meeting around a kitchen table.

My husband and I were talking about how ministry is a bunch of trials and errors.  Some of the projects we take on never amount to much.  Some find success.  At the beginning we question, “Is this really going to work?”

We never know unless we try.

Do you have a big idea surfacing in your mind?  A home business?  A mom’s group?  A club?  A community event?  A non-profit charity? A manuscript you want to publish?

You never know if it will work until you try.  Trying in and of itself is finding success.


My sister used an old spice rack to organize her daughter’s craft items.  I loved this idea!  My oldest is currently into crafts too. Little sequins and beads seem to get lost in the craft cupboard or embedded in the carpet.

My husband and I received the same spice rack as my wedding present eleven years ago.  We realized some the spices we hardly used–and they were now eleven years old! 

My sister got the idea from Family Fun Magazine.


I recently returned from Michigan.  I am a news correspondent with the Banner magazine.  We have a conference every two years typically in Grand Rapids with all the other news writers.  Grand Rapids is one of  my hometowns.  I lived there from 1989 – 2000 and then from 2005 – 2006. Part of my visit included spending time with family members who live there and reconnecting with old friends.

When you return to a place from your past, hundreds of memories flood your mind.  Things that you do not think about on a given day.  My friend Tricia and I explored Kuyper campus where we both went to college.  I graduated from there in 2000.

This is the very spot where my husband Rob and I had our first conversation.  It was following a 90′s style Coffeehouse/Talent Show.  He was talking to a mutual friend.  We began conversing together.  I walked back to my dorm room thinking, “He seems really nice.  I could date him.”  He walked back to his room thinking, “She seems really nice, but she’ll never date me because she’s a senior.”  Rob was a freshmen.Rob and I were married on May 19, 2001 in Kuyper’s chapel.  This is the room where I got ready on my wedding day.  It was not a cardio room at the time!  It was a big open room where we would watch movies on Friday nights.  Apparently Rob started watching Judge Judy in here on afternoons.  He acquired a few Judge Judy followers who watched it together on a regular basis.I also ventured out to Fruitport, Michigan where I lived from 2001 – 2004.  It is a cute little town seven miles from the Lake Michigan shoreline.  One of my closest friends Beth lives there.  I miss eating large bowls of ice cream and watching silly teen movies with her.  She is a mom to two beautiful kids she adopted from Ethiopia.

This is what Tulip Time is going to look this year!  While in Oregon we got a cold and flooding winter, Michigan had one of the warmest on record.  The tulips all bloomed way too early!

And I always love hanging around Calvin College where our conference took place.  Calvin is my other “alma mater” where I spent my first two years of college.  My siblings, parents, various aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents are all Calvin alumni.  I broke the trend by graduating from Kuyper.  I am forever grateful for the two years spent at Calvin–some of the best years of college.

Now that I have lived in Oregon for almost six years I see how I have shredded some of my “Michigander” identity and have become immersed in the Pacific Northwest culture.  Or else I have become a bit more well rounded.  There are parts of Michigan I will always miss, but I am grateful to return to Oregon which is the place I refer to as “home.”


Do you ever have one of those days when you are hit with one discouraging thing after the next?  Little things start to feel like big things?

That was my day yesterday.  It spilled into today.

Yesterday I took my youngest two to the grocery store to pick up some green onions and fresh broccoli for a stir fry I was making.   Our local grocery store has one of those “kid sized carts” that children can push and be “shoppers in training.”  I told my four-year old son to grab one.  He got to it about five second too late.  A little boy was already pushing it behind his mom.

My son found himself in an emotional upheaval.  He was crying.  Loud.

All I wanted to do is shush him.  Tell him to be quiet.  Inform him it is not a big deal.  He can get the cart next time.  Then I got frustrated and agitated.

It dawned on me that my husband must feel this when I get emotionally out of control.  Which has been more often the past forty-eight hours.  He wants to tell me it is not a big deal.  Or turn off the emotions.

He accepts me as I am.  I, too, accept my somewhat dramatic personality.  Unfortunately the emotions can turn into deep anxiety which can impair other areas of my life including my thinking.  One thing I am learning to do is acknowledging my feelings instead of seeing them as extreme emotional fireworks.

For instance saying…

“I am disappointed because this happened” or “I am sad because this event occurred.”

One of the first steps in dealing with anxiety is acknowledging what upset you (the event) and how it made you feel.  This can also help the “dramatic feeling type people” like myself think rationally and respond positively to people i.e. not push them away or drive them crazy.

And yes it is a joy even among the challenges to have a son who is like me in oh so many ways!


Our town puts on one of the largest kid’s races in the country called the Awesome 3000.  Last year my husband suggested our oldest (who was five at the time) run in it.   It is for kids as young as three all the way up to middle schoolers.  Depending on their age, kids can run anywhere from 300 meters to a 3 kilometers.  My daughter had to run a 1.5k which is about a mile.

With all my running experience, I figured I could help her train.   I started by taking her on a very condensed versions of my own training runs around the neighborhood.  The first run she loved.  By the third run it was a lot of complaining, frustration, and boredom.  How can I make this fun?  It was a question I struggled with.

As we entered into Awesome 3000 training again for her second experience, here is what I am doing.

1)  Encouragement!  If you have ever run a race, you know how the cheering (even if it is from total strangers) gets you across that finish line.  I daresay kids need it even more.  I find myself having to cheer her through every single training run.

2)  Find a common parking lot, track, or course.  As much as I find lap running boring, it does help my daughter measure her own progress.  She can run a whole lap without stopping.  Next she will try for two laps.  Once she is comfortable running a few laps without stopping, we will run on a trail or someplace more scenic.

3)  Make it fun with games. While we may do a lap or two, we also play simple games.  Lately we have been playing “triathlon.”  We pretend to swim, then jump on our bikes and do a lap around the parking lot, put our bikes down and run one lap.  Or we played a version of Red Light, Green Light called “Red Light, Green Light, Disco.” When you yell “Red Light” everyone has to stop.  “Green Light” means “go.” Yelling Disco means standing in one place and dancing.  The kids love it!

4) Make a rewards chart.  For every fitness activity whether it is swim lessons, running laps, playing tag, walking to the store, or riding bikes, the kids put a sticker on a chart.  I let them pick out their own stickers.

5) Set an example.  I remember an article in runners world about a father and son doing a Ironman triathlon together.  A friends was sharing with the pair how he bought his own son a very expensive racing bike and it sat in the garage.  The son said, “Well did you ever ask him to go biking with you?”  The father had not.  I grew up biking and swimming with my dad.  I want the same for my own kids!  It’s more fun when you can do it together.

 


I lost ten pounds on Weight Watchers in 2010.  Now I lost the ten I previously gained back in 2011 by using My Fitness Pal.

I was not going to post pictures because you cannot see a significant difference.  I tried taking a profile shot but it reminded me of taking “belly pregnancy pictures” and that freaked me out a little bit.  But this is where it began–a night of chocolate fondue around the holidays.  And realizing I had snacked recklessly since mid October–and it was only getting worse.

This is me in California last week.  Even if you cannot see a big difference, I feel better about my eating!  That is what is most important.  I am no longer sneaking into the chocolate chips jar throughout the day.  Snacking is under control.  I’m also in Week #6 of training for my third marathon I am running in Seattle in June!

So which is better–Weight Watchers or My Fitness Pal?  Here’s my thoughts on that…

Recipes:  I loved the recipes on Weight Watchers.  I am kicking myself because I did not save them on a Word file. I made some great healthy meals while I was on WW.  You can  also type in a few ingredients of whatever you have in your fridge. A whole bunch of simple recipes pop up.  I realize you can do this using google or Pinterest, but I had more success finding simple recipes with Weight Watchers.

Counting Calories:  Weight Watchers measures foods by points.  Every single food is assigned a point based on the calories and nutritional value.  There is a list of “filling foods” and “zero point” food which is quite helpful.  However, I think am receiving a better education in healthy eating by counting to the calorie versus the point.  My Fitness Pal uses calories for everything.

Cost:  My Fitness Pal is free.  I got a deal with Weight Watchers on line and paid around $50.00 for three months.

Community:  WW has message boards and an “on line community” but I never accessed it.  I like My Fitness Pal because you can “friend” people similar to facebook.  I felt instand support once I joined.  You can ”write on a wall” and start a discussion.  Or share a frustration or a success.  You can access other people’s food diaries to get meal ideas. You have the option of keeping your food diary own private.   There are message boards as well on varieties of topics.

Weight Loss:  I lost weight using both.  As long as you follow it, you should find results whichever one you use.


Meal planning is back!  The pantry is stocked again after vacation.  Here is what we are eating this week…

Monday:  Tortellini and Vegetable Soup

Tuesday:  Baked Potato Bar & Fruit and Yogurt Parfaits (BTW – a loaded baked potato makes a great gluten free meal)

Wednesday:  Tuna Macaroni Casserole

Thursday: Rob’s pulled pork

Friday:  Honey Glazed Chicken and Bacon

Saturday:  Barbeque with friends

Sunday:  Easter dinner with friends

We were pretty tired after a fun (but go, go, go) trip to Southern California, but I think everyone is pretty much rested now.  The oldest is back in school today.

I’m linking this with Menu Plan Monday



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