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There is something about a girl and her cat.  I think our cat, Salena, gets the most love from my youngest daughter.

So we knew when our preschool co-op made it to “C” week we had to do a “Cat Day.”  Here are some of the activities we did.  They could be incorporated into a small preschool, homeschool preschool, or even cat themed birthday party.

We made these “treat holder cats.”  It could be a fun halloween craft!  I used a half circle template I created with a half of lid. I traced the top of the two plates and cut out the half circles.  I painted the plates black with poster paint.  I also did a couple orange ones.  I stapled the two plates together.   Older kids could do this on their own, but we have kids ages 3 - 5.  Then I made triange ears, green circles for eyes, black rounded diamonds for pupils, a small diamond nose, and whiskers.  I had all the kids glue all the parts of the cats on with glue sticks or regular glue.

My youngest insisted on doing all the gluing herself.  She would not let me help at all–not even touch it!  A true work of art.

We read several “cat book.”  I had no problems finding any in the library.  The children section was full of them.  C is for Curious was one of their favorites.  The book is an “abc” book of feelings.  We talked what each feeling meant and when we might have felt that way.  Other great cat books:

The Cat in the Hat

Millions of Cats

Cat’s Night Out

I Love Cats

and one of our family’s absolute favorites:  Cookie’s Week  If anyone has a crazy hat like ours who was stuck under the house for five hours, you will relate to this one!

We did “Show and Tell” cats.  Each child brought a cat stuffed animals or picked one from a pile in my daughter’s bedroom.  They had to come up with a name for their cat, choose if it is a boy or girl, and say one thing they like about it.

I usually sing a few songs with them.  We sang, “If you’re happy you know it.”  We changed some of the verses to “If you’re happy and you know it, pet your cat” and “If you’re happy and you know it jump like a cat.”  You could even do “lick your paws,” “stretch your legs,” “purr,” or “meow.”

I always read a Bible story as a devotinal.  We read the creation story and talked about how God made everything including the vast sky and small things like little cats.

We did not get to it (partially we because ran out of time and also because it was a nice warm morning and I wanted to give the kids some “backyard playtime”) but I had planned on showing some funny cat videos from AFV.  We will have to save that for another time.

 

 

 


I am homeschooling my almost five year old and almost year old (my seven year old is in Christian school).  What started out as something intimidating has turned into something I am loving!

Since I was clueless on where to start, here are some things we have done the first few weeks.  It might spark some ideas for other moms.

We played a fun number recognition game that I found on The Mother Huddle.  It is very simple.  All you need is an egg carton, sharpie, several small snacky foods, and large numbers.  For the numbers I use a Leap Frog puzzle we already have.

I wrote the numbers 1-9 in the egg carton spaces and then gave my son a tray of snacks.  I had five marshmallows, three Cherrios etc.  He had to count each snack and put it in the numerical space where it belongs.  Then he got to eat the snacks afterwards.

For letter recognition we are working on an alphabet scrapbook.  My son has to find items in the house or in the backyard that start with each letter.  We have almost completed this project and can being working on the actual book.  This is one of my favorite pictures…

I also formed a preschool co-op with a friend.  Every Tuesday we have four kids ranging in ages from three to almost five.  I teach for a month and then it will be my friend’s turn.  We are doing a different letter each week.  We just finished “B” week.  The kids made boat pictures.

You can tell which was made by the almost five year old and which was made by the almost three year old.  I love it!

The co-op days are pretty structured since we have a big age range and want to create a more “school” environment.  The other two days I homeschool my son are more laid back.  For instance yesterday we read library books for a half hour in the morning.  Then we worked on a math workbook in the afternoon during my oldest’s swim lesson.

I get my ideas from anywhere and everywhere.  For worksheets I have found Kid Zone to have some great resources.  Especially if you want to take something along to a swim lesson or soccer game for your younger child to do.  Bright Beaming Resources Letter of the Week Curriculum is providing me with good ideas for activities, books, and simple crafts.  I found more craft ideas for our co-op at No Time For Flash Cards.  It is fun to see my little ones learning and enjoying it!


As moms, we all have natural skill areas we are passionate about such as doing crafts with our kids, baking together, or teaching.  Mine is reading.  I love to read to all three of my kids.  And I love summer reading!

I never instill a limit on how many books we check out at the library.  Today we went a little crazy and checked out twenty-four.  In the summer months we are often at the library once a week so they get returned long before their due date.Our library has an awesome summer reading program!  We started it when my oldest was twenty-one months old.  This is her seventh year.  The library plans all kinds of activities, craft events, a kid’s art show, movie afternoons, and raffle prizes. Plus a Summer Reading Store in early September where the kids can redeem their “hours” for prizes.Even my youngest is excited to participate and color in her hours.We made these clipboards to hang in our laundry room aka mud room.

I had Summer Reading guides in mind when we made them.  I am also using them for homework and ”reminder” papers. I was finding the bulletin board was getting too cluttered and the younger two like to pull papers off the fridge…and then they get lost forever. Only my oldest in school so hers gets the most use.I stole the idea from my sister.  She has two children in school and each of her children use their clipboards for homework and school papers.

I also increase my own personal reading for the summer.  My goal is to read at least ten books before school starts again.


I greatly appreciated this post from Life As A Mom about Planning For Preschool.  To preschool or not to preschool has been an issue my husband and I wrestled with for years.  I was a preschool kid.  My husband was not.  We both agree we had positive experiences.  So the ”I turned out fine” argument does not work.

The fall that my oldest turned four, I got together with two friends (who also had four-year olds with fall birthdays) and we created our own preschool co-op.  They each had a toddler and we were all pregnant with our third child.  We attended the same mom’s group.  Our preschool met once a week and we each took turns hosting.  It worked and our children thrived on the routine.

Our preschool co-op group from 2009

I also started working with my oldest child two or three days a week.  The whole idea of homeschooling intimidated me.  I had no idea where to start and was overwhelmed by curriculum choices.  Did preschoolers need to be homeschooled anyway?  She needed something.  So we read books, memorized Scripture, did math worksheets, and practiced handwriting.  It did not come naturally to me and it still doesn’t.  But we did it for several months.

Now my middle child is four.  We tried a co-op preschool, but for various reasons it has not worked as well.  Although I am still friends with my preschool co-op friends, there is less weekly contact.  We are now at different churches, different mom’s groups, and juggling other projects.  I  picked up a part-time writing job, am doing more volunteer youth ministry and striving to get involved in my now first grader’s school.  Life changed in two years as it usually does.

I feel like homeschooling is still not “me.”  I have met many moms who are passionate about it and driven by all homeschooling has to offer.  While I appreciate what they have to say, I often feel intimidated by it.

We committed to homeschooling for preschool.  My husband has understood my challenges (and my intimidation) and agreed it is something we can both share.  All the homeschooling responsibilities need not fall on myself.  I also realized there is no magic way to home school my son.  Whatever we try (and probably change and try something else), he will grow and learn.  When we do send him off to kindergarten in the fall of 2013, he will be better because of the extra time he was given at home.


Every year my husband challenges me to read more books than he does.  And every single year he wins.  If we counted all the children’s books I read to the kids, I might win.  Last year I read eleven books.  This year I was excited to have doubled it.   Here’s what I read…

1)     Generous Justice:  How God’s Grace Makes Us Just by Timothy Keller

2)     Triathlon 101: Essentials for Multisport Success  by John Mora

3)     Mission in the Old Testament: Israel as a Light to the Nations  by Walter C Kaiser, Jr.

4)     Bringing Up Girls:  Practical Advice and Encouragement From Those Shaping the Next Generation of Women by James Dobson

5)     The Prodigal God: Recovering the Heart of the Christian Faith by Timothy Keller

6)     Get Me Out of Here : My Recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder by Rachel Reiland

7)     Mennonite In a Black Dress : A Memoir of Going Home by Rhonda Janzen

8)     My Turn: The Memoirs of Nancy Reagan by Nancy Reagan

9)     I’m More than the Pastor’s Wife: Authentic Living in a Fishbowl World by Lorna Dobson

10)The House on Mango Street  by Sandra Ciscernos

11)Counterfeit Gods: The Empty Promises of Money, Sex, and Power, and the Only Hope That Matters  by Timothy Keller

12)Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by JK Rowling

13)Always Looking Up:  The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist by Michael J Fox

14)Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets by JK Rowling

15)Lucky Man: A Memoir by Michael J Fox

16)A Love That Multiplies: An Up-Close View of How They Make It Work:  Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar

17)Mistaken Identity: Two Families, One Survivor, Unwavering Hope by Don and Susie Van Ryn and Newell, Colleen & Whitney Cerak

18)Before You Meet Prince Charming by Sarah Mally

19)Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban by JK Rowling

20)There are No Children Here:  The Story of Two Boys Growing Up In The Other America by Alex Kotlowitz

21)Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community by Robert D Putnam

22)Dance at My Funeral by Jan Klooster

23) Everyday Justice by Julie Clawson

I love reading memoirs the most. But I finally jumped on the Harry Potter bandwagon like ten years late and starting read the series.  My goal for 2012 is to read more fiction.  Because I am no longer a student, I crave learning and gravitate to non-fiction.


I was a storyteller in high school.  I actually went to early morning Saturday competitions.  I only made it to semifinals once and honestly I did not give it the time and attention it deserved.  But I learned an awful lot about children’s literature and making stories come to life.  I think I would enjoy competitions more if I were given the opportunity now as a mom!  I LOVE to read to my kids!  I love sharing Bible Stories with the Children’s Worship kids.

My daughter and I telling the story "Who's In Rabbit's House?" at our church campout this spring

Vary your pitch - It is amazing to see kid’s eyes grow big and round as you whisper in a soft voice and get louder as you build the plot of the story.  Emphasize in a loud voice action words like, “She leapt!” or “He flew!”  This will capture your children’s attention.

Vary your tempo - I love Dr. Seuss books because you can read them in so many different ways.  Sometimes I read a page in lightning fast speed and other times super slow.  I was sharing a story about a group of animals with names that were repeated several times in a book.  A storyteller coach suggested reading them slow the first time.  Then reading them super fast the second time.  It made the story more interesting.

Do voices, but you don’t have to be too elaborate-  I am not really a “voice” person and this is where I struggled in storytelling.  My husband is good at impersonations and can do fifty different voices in a bunch of different dialects.  Unless you are performing for a hundred kids (and if you are, you should be writing this post instead of reading it), vary the voices but don’t go overboard.  Sometimes little squeaky voices or deep scary voices can be distracting and your child loses the plot.

I have always loved reading to my kids even when they were babies!

Know the story beforehand if you are reading to a group of kids - Even though I have grown up with Bible Stories, I still try to read through the story several times before I share it in Children’s Worship.  When I fumble my words or am too glued to my notes, I lose the kid’s attention.  With three-year olds, it is hard to get that attention back.  This would also apply if you are reading to your child’s class or a small group of kids.

Tell your own stories! A great game we played in the car when my oldest was around three was making up our own stories.  I would start with a very simple plot and then ask her to finish the story.  You will be amazed how creative your kids are–and it might spark the creative side that is hiding in you!


My oldest had her first soccer game today.  I feel like need we an official welcome to the ”Kids and Sports” era of parenting.  I remember going to youth group kid’s soccer game hearing all these crazy moms cheering and yelling.  They seemed obnoxious.  Yeah…now that’s me.  It was fun to watch her play.  She’s pretty aggressive.

Anyway  here’s some posts that I found this week in the world of blog I want to share…

Laura from The Mouro Family shares a list of 50 Books For Young Ladies  based on her oldest child’s (age 10) recommendations. I found this list something I want to tuck away as my oldest slowly gets into chapter books.  Some of the ones on the list were personal favorites of my own.

Rhonda asks Are children keeping you out of the ministry? over at Raising Homemakers.  There is debate whether young moms should get involved in various ministries within the church or whether her kids are her own ministry.  I honestly think it is both.  I love the fact our children see my husband and I serving both within the church and community (and we do some of it together as a family).  We’ve also BOTH learned to guard family time.

This recipe from Suzanne at The Mother Huddle for roasted stuff breakfast peppers is something I want to put on my meal plan.  Because my husband eats in a gluten free world, most cereals, pastries, toast, and breakfast burritos are out.  This recipe is gluten free and looks wonderful!

Enjoy your Sunday–I believe Oregon is going to be blessed with its first round of rain the next few days.  Knew we had to bask in the sunshine while we had it.


Home schooling, Christian schools, or public education?  Do you find yourself in these conversations striving to defend your choice for your children?

These can be healthy conversations.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with sharing your decision and the process that brought you there.

But sometimes I find myself irritated by all the stereotypes.  Be aware when you are talking about home school, Christian schools, or public schools, there is diversity even among those categories.  There are hundreds of ways to home school. There are co-ops, sports leagues, music leagues, on line schooling, and more.

When it comes to Christian education, there are schools that are Baptist, Lutheran, Catholic, or non-denominational.  I went to a large K-8 Christian school with approximately 600 students and the vast majority attended Christian Reformed Churches.  My daughter goes to a Lutheran school that meets in a Lutheran church with approximately 60 students.  She and one other student are the only ones who attend a Christian Reformed church. Two Christian educational experiences. Similarities, yes.  But big differences

What do you mean by public school?  Charter school?  Fine arts school?  Alternative education?  And there are differences among districts.

Please do not assume home school moms are ultra conservative and want to shield their children from the real world.  I have met moms who choose to home school
because they want their family to be closer.  A friend once shared with me that everyone had their own separate friends, school activities, and rarely spent time with one another growing up.  Home schooling has created a place for her family to thrive and grow together.  Some moms want to help their children with special needs or their gifted children succeed in an environment tailored to their specific needs.

And please do not assume Christian school moms have more money than everyone else.  As a Christian school mom, I try to respond politely to the—“It must be nice to have your children in Christian school.  We cannot afford it because we do not make enough money.” The truth is most of us cannot afford it either.  Most Christian school families are not rolling in extra cash—usually the opposite. For our family, it takes extra financial planning that began while our kids were babies. For some moms it means juggling home businesses or working part time.  For others it means seeking financial assistance from churches or family members.

And please do not assume public school moms do not care about their children learning the truths of the Bible or that they are allowing their children to be corrupted by the world. The “world” is in the Christian school too…and home schools.  There are Christians who have intently chosen to educate within the public schools systems.  As a youth pastor I witnessed student-lead and teacher supported Christian clubs and Bible Studies thriving in public school systems—sometimes more so than the Christian schools.  As citizens it is our duty and responsibility to support the public schools.

So please do not think you are a better mom because you are home schooling your children, or paying for Christian education, or sending your children off to public school.  We have a choice.  That is the great part about it.  We know what we believe, what is best for our children, and what we want to support.  That might change with each year, each child, or each place we live.

Be open to sharing your story, your choices, and even your concerns. But please make sure you take the time to listen to others as well.


VBS week just wrapped up around here.  Some things during VBS week are inevitable—the house is messier, the laundry is exploding, and the guinea pig’s cage smells because I forgot to clean it this week. I have directed or co-directed Vacation Bible School four or five times not to mention the many years of teaching and leading games.  Other things about VBS week are inevitable—people questioning why we do VBS.  Yes, I have dealt with many VBS skeptics over the years and I myself was one of them.

You have heard it before—

“Why do we spend so much time, energy, and finances on a program that only lasts one week.”

“Almost all the kids are from our church or other churches.  These kids have already heard the gospel message.”

“The moms just use VBS as free daycare.  They send their kids to multiple VBS programs throughout the summer.”

“None of these kids end up coming to our Sunday School or youth programs anyway.  It’s not a great way to bring people into the church.”

My answer to this:  So what?

Running an effective program and connecting with others takes time, energy, and yes finances.  Churches who do not budget much for evangelism will not do as much outreach.  Between prayer team members, prayer partners, people bringing in snack, sound techs, teachers, craft leaders, registration volunteers, it is amazing to see people coming together as ONE body.  1 Corinthians 12:12 always resonates in my
mind during VBS week.  We are ALL gifted in many different ways.

Why should VBS only be for non-Christians?  Is it not good for our churched kids to hear the truths from the Bible and connect with other kids in their community? When I was age four, I remember sitting in the sanctuary in my little town church in Wappingers Falls, New York learning the words to “Into my heart…Come into my heart, Lord Jesus.”  It was one of the first moments I understood what it meant to love Jesus Christ.  I felt a tremendous peace sweep over me. VBS is for the churched kids too.

If moms are using it as free day care, what is the big deal?  Is it not great that the church can create a presence in the community and serve moms this way?  Some of them might need a break!  Is it a bad thing these kids might hear Bible stories two to three times in the summer? Is it not better than kids watching endless amounts of TV?  And many families cannot afford sports camps or science camps or art programs.  And the prices seem to be getting higher. Our VBS is free!

Even if we never see these kids again, we do not know how the Holy Spirit touched them.  You cannot measure that.   Even if our programs do not grow as a result of VBS, we are still connecting with kids within our own community.  Kids we might run into at the local grocery store or on a walk to the post office.  You cannot measure “community” either.

Our VBS is slowly starting to move outward.  We did a service project for the first time during VBS week.  A total of nineteen 5th and 6th graders and three adults visited a women and children’s homeless shelter and did some cleaning projects.  Our whole VBS collected over 850 rolls of toilet paper for them along with toiletries, pajamas, and games.  It was truly amazing delivering it all this afternoon with five VBS girls who wanted to come and help.

Prior to VBS we did a mini carnival and served cookies and juice in a park close to our church.  We invited kids to VBS, but our main purpose was connecting with our neighbors.

Slowly we would love to connect with more moms at VBS.  We know of another church in our denomination who set up a Mom’s Coffee Corner where moms could visit and connect.  We’re still trying to figure out how to do this, but maybe this will be a part of our future.

So if you are a VBS skeptic, look deeper.  You may not know how the Holy Spirit is at work.  You might be surprised.



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