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These pictures are called “3 Mile Run.”  This was the first time ever that I went on a run and stopped and took pictures along the way.  I was still thinking about God’s vast creation from Rob’s sermon yesterday.  Part of my run was on a trail at a park a mile from our house.

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I came across this holly bush along the trail.  We love to walk along the neighborhood at night and look at all the Christmas lights.  Isn’t it wonderful to see natural Christmas “decorations” too?

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I am reminded of how different December is in the Pacific Northwest versus the Midwest.  Most of our deciduous trees (and we don’t have nearly as many) have lost their leaves, but many are still dressed in yellows and oranges.  Most of trees are bare by this time in Michigan.


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When we first moved to Oregon I was confused why it was still rainy (and sometimes cold) in the month of June while it seemed the rest of the country was beginning summer.  Then I discovered how warm and beautiful our September and early October is.  By the time December comes, we have lots of rain.  It is warm enough to enjoy a run outside (in between rain storms).  Our seasons are quite different here, but I am so used to it now.

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These tress line one of the streets I usually run on.  They are right across the street from my daughter’s school.  I love running past her school and seeing if I can find her playing out on the playground.DSC07695

I took this picture of myself running.  I set the camera on top of a mailbox.  I love running this time of year.  I think it is because the high 40′s/50ish temperatures are perfect for running outside–not too hot or too cold.  It is a nice break in the day in a busy holiday season.
DSC07696The groundskeeper of our church has been chopping off extra limbs off some of the trees.  People have been taking logs for fresh firewood.

If you want to enjoy small glimpses of nature or get to know your own community, take up running.  It’s not the major reason why I took up running, but it is one of the benefits.

 


The trees in my backyard at dusk

The trees in my backyard at dusk

It is the first Sunday of Advent.  My husband preached from Job 38:1-11 this morning about how Jesus has to come to release creation from the curse of sin.  This is God’s vast beautiful world and it is on its way to renewal.  I enjoy this amazing creation right in my backyard–these three beautiful trees I LOVE.

“God doesn’t create junk and He doesn’t junk what He created.”  - Al Wolters.


December photo project

I do not consider myself a classy photographer.  But I like pictures.  I love scrapbooks, photo gifts, and paging through old photo albums.  So I thought that taking part in the December Photo Project hosted by The View From the Prairie Box would help me savor each day during the holidays.  I figure it would help me celebrate each moment versus being swept away in the hustle and bustle and non-stop holiday commercials.

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Day #1

I took the oldest to see the Christmas Story (aka “You’ll Shoot Your Eye Out!”) on stage put on by a Christian theatre group in our town run by volunteers.  All the actors and actresses were middle and high school students.  To be honest I was expecting a mediocre performance.  It was VERY WELL DONE!  The actors and actresses were quite talented!  The sets and props were amazing.  I would totally go to one of their performances again.

I do a special outing with each of my children during the holidays as a “mommy/child” date.  This was my first with the oldest.  A great afternoon together!


I love beach vacations that have very little agenda except for playing in the sand, swimming, reading a book, conversations, and relaxation.

And I love Canada!  I am a full blooded American married to a Canadian.

I love taking my time getting home and stopping to see beautiful sights along the way.

Such as Mount Saint Helens.  My first time seeing it up close.

But I also love coming home!  Even if the outside of my house currently looks like this.  New siding will be put on very soon.

And new windows too!

Our cat is always happy to see us.  I wonder if she misses us while we are away or wonders if we are going to come back.

I love it when kids are so tired that they ask to be put to bed at 7:00 PM.  Or they just fall asleep during supper.

Of the past sixteen nights, I have spent only two in my own bed.  The rest were spent in Philadelphia, Washington, and British Columbia.  It’s good to be home again.


I have been taking a short hiatus from Everyday Mom.  For the past week I had the incredible opportunity to travel to Philadelphia along with fifteen other people.  Our task was simple:  to learn about community development from church planters while participating in a camp for 10-14 year olds at By Grace Alone Church.  This is not just an activity driven camp.  This camp is called Business Boot Camp and the kids learn about entrapeneurship, employment, risk-taking, teamwork, and more.  It was amazing to be a part of it!

It’s part of a project my church started called the Salem/Philly Connect.  Basically we sent a team to inner city Philly to learn about community outreach.  In 2012, the Philly church will send a team to us here in Oregon.  You can read more about how this project got started, why we felt God calling us to do it, how it is totally different than your average church mission trip, and how it impacted our lives.

We hope to do a few fundraisers throughout the year to send some of our new Philly friends to Oregon next summer to help us with summer outreach projects.  Stay tuned.

Now I am getting ready to leave on a much needed vacation.  Everyday Mom may be a little quiet until I return.

 


Happy Independence Day!

Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.  – Martin Luther King Jr.


I will forever be a little “old school” and I am OK with that.  The iPod and iTunes has been around for a while, but I have just begun to use both.  I am loving my iPod Shuffle which was my Mother’s Day present.  Running with actual music versus the soundtrack of my mind has helped push me through these last few weeks of marathon training.

I would not say I came from a “musical family.”   Some of us did band, choir, and piano in different seasons of life.  I did come from a “radio family.”  My mom’s light rock station was our breakfast soundtrack every morning.  My sister and I watched music videos in the early era of MTV. We knew pop and rock music backwards and forwards.  We wanted to get my brother as a contestant on “Rock and Roll Jeopardy” which Jeff Probst hosted in his pre-Survivor days.

So as I am searching through iTunes for the perfect running songs, here are some of five fun facts about the tracks from my life…

1)  My first favorite song was Believe It Or Not (Greatest American Hero)  .  I have no idea who sings it and I was four years old when I chose it as my favorite song.

2)  The first cassette tape I ever purchased was Starship:  Knee Deep in the Hoopla.  My favorite song We Built This City  and this song was ranked by VHI as the most awesomely bad song…ever.

3)  The first song I ever shared with a guy was Waiting For A Star to Fall by Boy Meets Girl.  My husband and I do have a song of our own.  It’s Truly Madly Deeply by Savage Garden.

4)  The first tapes my younger brother bought were The Best of the Monkees and Paul Simon Graceland.  I think that makes him slightly cooler than me.

5)  Billy Joel has been one of my favorite singers since I was seven years old.  I started liking him when we listened to the “An Innocent Man” album over and over on a long road trip to Florida when I was second grade.


I recently returned from Michigan.  I am a news correspondent with the Banner magazine.  We have a conference every two years typically in Grand Rapids with all the other news writers.  Grand Rapids is one of  my hometowns.  I lived there from 1989 – 2000 and then from 2005 – 2006. Part of my visit included spending time with family members who live there and reconnecting with old friends.

When you return to a place from your past, hundreds of memories flood your mind.  Things that you do not think about on a given day.  My friend Tricia and I explored Kuyper campus where we both went to college.  I graduated from there in 2000.

This is the very spot where my husband Rob and I had our first conversation.  It was following a 90′s style Coffeehouse/Talent Show.  He was talking to a mutual friend.  We began conversing together.  I walked back to my dorm room thinking, “He seems really nice.  I could date him.”  He walked back to his room thinking, “She seems really nice, but she’ll never date me because she’s a senior.”  Rob was a freshmen.Rob and I were married on May 19, 2001 in Kuyper’s chapel.  This is the room where I got ready on my wedding day.  It was not a cardio room at the time!  It was a big open room where we would watch movies on Friday nights.  Apparently Rob started watching Judge Judy in here on afternoons.  He acquired a few Judge Judy followers who watched it together on a regular basis.I also ventured out to Fruitport, Michigan where I lived from 2001 – 2004.  It is a cute little town seven miles from the Lake Michigan shoreline.  One of my closest friends Beth lives there.  I miss eating large bowls of ice cream and watching silly teen movies with her.  She is a mom to two beautiful kids she adopted from Ethiopia.

This is what Tulip Time is going to look this year!  While in Oregon we got a cold and flooding winter, Michigan had one of the warmest on record.  The tulips all bloomed way too early!

And I always love hanging around Calvin College where our conference took place.  Calvin is my other “alma mater” where I spent my first two years of college.  My siblings, parents, various aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents are all Calvin alumni.  I broke the trend by graduating from Kuyper.  I am forever grateful for the two years spent at Calvin–some of the best years of college.

Now that I have lived in Oregon for almost six years I see how I have shredded some of my “Michigander” identity and have become immersed in the Pacific Northwest culture.  Or else I have become a bit more well rounded.  There are parts of Michigan I will always miss, but I am grateful to return to Oregon which is the place I refer to as “home.”


Whether you are venturing south to balmy Florida or west to sunny southern California, a Disney vacation is a must at some point in the life of your family.  I have done both Disney parks as a child, young adult, and as a mom.  You can move faster, get more rides in, and see the afternoon parades without little children.  However, there is something magical about seeing your preschooler’s face light up when he sees Donald Duck for the first time or hear your toddler daughter giggle on the Little Mermaid Ride or hear you first grader squeal with delight on Big Thunder Mountain Railroad.

We recently returned from Disneyland.  My husband and my parents along with my three children (ages 6 1/2, 4 1/2, and 2 1/2) spent three days at Disneyland along with a few extra days exploring southern California.  On our last night in our hotel, we put together a list of tips for future Disney goers.   These are some of the things my mom, my husband, and I came up with…

Bring in your own food!  Some theme parks are sticklers for bringing in outside food and drink.  Disneyland is not.  We saved a lot of money by making sandwiches. We even took jelly packets from the breakfast buffet in our hotel.  Both parks (Disneyland & California’s Great Adventure) have locker rental.  We paid $7.00 for the day which was well worth it.

It’s not a bad idea to rent a stroller.  Stroller rentalis $15.00.  We took a fold-up umbrella style stroller from home for our two year old.  On the last day we rented an additional stroller for our four-year old.  Instead of renting a locker we carried our food bag in the stroller. The only downside with putting a four-year in a stroller (and it might be unique to our four-year old) is it gave him something else to play with.  We constantly had to tell him to sit on it properly and not push it into people.  The extra “item” to juggle did try our patience at times.

Our lodging choice:  I would highly recommend the motel we stayed in:  the Staybridge Suites in Anaheim.  We were able to take a bus to and from Disneyland.  Busses ran every 20 minutes or so until 12:30 am. You can purchase bus tickets at the bus stop or at the hotel desk.  There was a big breakfast every single morning.  Some motels that serve breakfast have cramped eating quarters.  This was not the case.  It was a large dining room and lots of high chairs for little ones.  They also serve a light supper (such as meatball subs, hot dogs, and nachos) Monday through Thursday for two hours in the evening.  We saved money on dinners by eating at the motel.  Staybridge also had free laundry and a large outdoor pool and hot tub.

Leave enough time for Disney California Adventure:  This is the park adjacent to Disneyland that was built about eleven years ago.  We found it much less crowded especially in the morning.  We had little to no wait on rides until after lunch.  There are lots of toddler/preschool friendly rides.  If we had an extra day, we probably would have spent more time here.

Scheduling Naps:  We tried to get to parks between 9:30 AM and 10 AM and our younger two were “done” by 2:30 PM.  We often left, put kids down for naps, and returned after supper.  We were able to catch some of the night shows and go on one or two more rides.  We found lines for rides are still long even after 8 PM.  There is a “night life” at Disney and many stick around until the parks close. 

Make your own autograph books:  There are Disney characters everywhere (mostly on Main Street USA) and this was a highlight for all three of our kids.  Instead of spending extra money on autograph books, my mom made some with my daughters as a little craft.  She  used a foam notebook (could find at a dollar store or craft store) and the girls put foam stickers on it.  My oldest also used it as a journal of our trip.

And last always leave room for the “unplanned.”  In 2000 my husband (who was my fiance at the time), parents, brother, and my brother’s best friend spent four days at Walt Disney World.  When all was said and done we spent a night in a motel in Atlanta, did catapult jumps off one another in the pool, and watched the Stanley Cup finals.  I remember my brother saying that was just as fun (and memorable) as the four jam-packed days at Disney.  Your kids will appreciate the times sitting around the pool, going out to eat, coloring in the motel room, and going out for breakfast.   Leave room for those moments.


This is a Frugal Friday Saturday post.  I was going to finish editing this post on Thursday and post it on Friday.  We were staying in a beautiful hotel in Seattle this weekend attending a conference.  Like we have found with a lot of nice hotels, some of the small perks have a price attached to them.  Wireless Internet had a fee.  We joked about running across the street to the Super 8 and using their free Wi Fi in the lobby, but we didn’t feel right in doing that.  But no problem, better late than never!

We are departing for Disneyland next week. These are some fabulous tips that mostly came from my dear friend Christina who was at Disney three weeks ago with her kids.  I wanted to remember them and share them with you all…

1)  Take Crystal Light On the Go packs to pour into your water bottles.  This will save you from spending extra money on drinks with your meal.  You will not need to purchase bottled water or pop.  Many restaurants and pop machines in theme parks charge more on beverages than what you would pay outside of the park.  Drinking pop when you are in the hot sun will only make you thirstier anyway.

2)  Buy your own glow sticks/glow bands from the dollar store before your trip.  If you go to a laser light show or fireworks at places like Disneyland, vendors everywhere will be selling them.  And you will pay much more if you buy them in the park. And my kids are young enough that they won’t care.

3)  Buy Disney character t-shirts before your trip from department stores.  My girls are all about Disney princesses and you can find character shirts at stores like Old Navy or Kohls.  My kids each have about two to three shirts to wear for the first time on our vacation.

4)  Use restaurant gift cards for eating out.  If you get restaurant gift cards as gifts, save them for when you are on vacation.  You can also earn restaurant gifts cards if you utilize Swagbucks.

5)  Make a meal plan and take along recipes.  If you are staying in a place where you are able to cook, make a meal plan!  That way you do not over buy with groceries.  And take along easy family friendly recipes.  The beauty of traveling with multiple families is each person can take “a night” and cook a meal for everyone.  That way it still feels like vacation for the rest.

I am linking this up with Life As Mom Frugal Friday



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