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Some people make a New Years resolution to lose weight.  My husband’s resolution was to make a new dessert every week.  I told him since he was taking the time to try brand new recipes and take pictures of every single one (and I still laugh when my nephew said–”Why do you have all these pictures of food on your computer?) he really ought to create a blog.

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So Weekend Dessert is officially launched.  You will find some gourmet delicious desserts on it.  I have always been a hot fudge sundae type person.  My husband has helped me expand my horizons.

 


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And now here concludes 25 days of Christmas and 25 posts of photos.  This Christmas season has truly been one I will remember dearly.  Maybe it is because my kids are getting older, I am getting much better sleep, and my mind is functioning more clearly.  :)  Or maybe it because I am wiser and understand the deeper meaning of Advent.  Or it could be because we have now lived here for six years…and it is more home than it ever has been.  We have created ongoing traditions and celebrations.  Whatever the case, I am grateful for this Christmas season and looking forward to 2013…whatever it may bring.

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Since we moved to Oregon we rarely spend Christmas Eve with extended family. It is not possible with the distance and the need for my husband to be close to home at Christmas with his worship leading responsibilities.  For the first time in a long time, I am OK with that.  We have been blessed to have wonderful friends here we can share holidays with.

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We are thankful for this season of life when we have dear friends working their way through the toddler/preschool/early education years alongside us.  Who we can laugh with, cry with, and celebrate with.

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We are grateful to not just fellowship together but also to spur one another on in our spiritual journeys.  As we seek to be men and women of faith and godly parents to our little ones.


Yesterday we celebrated 12-12-12 by participating in a nation wide “Random Acts of Kindness Day.”  We kept busy all day long by bringing hot chocolate, lunch, and treats to various people.  We made crafts for others.  We prayed for friends going through difficult times.  It was a wonderful day and something I need to incorporate more than once a year.  I did not take a bunch of pictures because I did not want the glory to go to us.  I want to be more secretive and humble about helping others and not a huge spectacle of it.

So my picture today is how I ended the day.  My co-leader in our middle school group and I took nine middle schoolers laser tagging for our Christmas meeting.  It was a great time to all be together in a fun and competitive atmosphere.  I think working with the middle schoolers is one of the most fun and exciting ministries even among the challenges.  I pray for these kids often and I am thrilled I to be their youth leader (even though they figured out last night I am old enough to be their mom.)

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DSC07753Last night our fellowship group from church had our annual Christmas party.  It is typically well attended and we always have a white elephant gift exchange. Some of the games gifts reappear year after year.DSC07762When we first moved to Oregon it was the desire of my heart to have a close network of friends.  I am not a loner by any means and I love being around people.  God has truly answered that prayer.  DSC07768I think one of the highlights of the night was looking through the Awkward Family Photo Book.  Quite hilarious.DSC07764God has truly put beautiful people in our lives and within our church.  Such a tremendous blessing.


A few years ago I made a list of things I will never do.  At the very top of the list was cake decorating.  After too many disastrous, I-am-way-too-embarrassed-to-show-you-pictures birthday cakes, I threw in the towel.  But the over last year I have formed a more positive relationship with my oven.  Baking has become one of my favorite hobbies.

So when the opportunity to make a birthday cake for an end of the summer/birthday party came my way, I seized it!  This is probably the first actual cake I have ever decorated that turned out halfway decent.  This is a simple flip flop cake that would be fun for a Labor Day barbeque or little girl’s birthday party.

My cake decorating attempts have only begun.  I have not one, not two, but three kid’s birthdays this fall!  I am already getting some ideas.

BTW – You should probably never say you will not do something.  There are some things on my original list that I currently do and enjoy.


Our VBS barbeque was last Friday.  Between Friday evening and Sunday afternoon, we counted forty people who got sick with a stomach bug.  There are probably more we do not know about.

All three of my children got sick all within a couple of hours of one another.  My husband came down with it on Sunday.  I avoided it. I rarely dodge illnesses.  I tend to get everything they get.  My first thoughts were they all ate the watermelon at the picnic and I did not.  Could it be the watermelon?

I felt like I was conducting a forsenic investigation yesterday as my husband and I did a poll over facebook and over the phone of who got sick and if they ate the watermelon.

There was a small amount of people (we counted maybe two) who got sick and did not eat the watermelon.  There were also a few people (we counted two) who ate the watermelon and did not get sick.

Most families who had a mix of sick people and healthy people had a direct correlation.  Those who ate the watermelon were sick.  Those who did not were well.

As our investigation progressed we realized we probably could not blame the watermelon.  A few doctors we know said you cannot get food poisoning from a watermelon.  They said it sounds more like a contagious stomach virus.  

According to Wiki Answers  if there are pathogens on the outside of the watermelon, they can be pushed to the inside edible part if the watermelon is not washed. Bacteria or a virus could have possibly been on the watermelon. But they also could have been anywhere:  the potato chip bowl, drinking fountain, door knobs etc. Food poisoning tends to occur within a few hours and there were still people coming down with it almost 48 hours after they ate the watermelon.

We will never know if we can blame the watermelon.  It makes for a funny Vacation Bible School memory.  Half our church was out on “VBS” Sunday and there were a mere four kids present to sing the VBS song (we usually have 20-30).

We tend to think of cold and flu season in October through April. Not June. Many said it was a good reminder that any time you have large groups of people in one place–wash hands.  Utilize hand sanitizer.  Don’t share cups.  If you feel sick, stay home.  If your kids are sick, keep them home.

We all said VBS week was well worth it despite a large percentage ending it with a stomach bug.  Most of us have never been part of an outbreak before!


I have been a part of a MOPS group since 2006.  About three years ago our group started a tradition of having a “Spa Meeting.”  It is one of the most popular meetings.

The first year we had it, my youngest was only a few months old.  She had gotten over bronchiolitis and I was still very sleep deprived.  This meeting came at the right time.  The free hand massage and hair cut was amazing.  I was grateful for one of the moms who generously held my baby the whole time so I could enjoy it.

Here is how we do it.  It does vary from year to year.

We offer 10-15 minute massages.  In the past we had a woman come in and do hand massages.  This year we were lucky to have someone who was able to do neck and back massages.

We offer eyebrow waxing.  This is always very popular!  The sign-up list fills up quickly.

We offer some type of craft that goes along with ”a self care” theme.  In the past we made neck wraps.  This year we made a therapeutic sugar scrub.  Several of the ladies said it made their hands feel super soft.  We always choose a craft with simple household items that is affordable.

We have a table lined with every single color of nail polish you can think of!  It is fun to socialize and paint nails or toes.We have another table with hand creams, satin hand treatments, and ring cleaner.  I honestly don’t know what the satin hand treatment is!  I usually spend so much time at the massage and nail polish table, I miss some of the others!

At the center of the room is always a big jar filled with a special elixir punch.  It is very simple–lipton green tea mixed with ginger ale with lemons and limes to garnish.  It is such a small part of the spa day, but I look forward to it every year!

I think many of the moms appreciate a relaxing environment to socialize, share, and get to know one another better.

Our Spa meeting does not cost an excessive amount of money.  Many of the volunteers (massage therapists, beauticians) donate their time.  They are welcome to pass out business cards or promote their business.  The hand creams, nail polish, ring cleaner is all donated or borrowed.  We do spend money on craft supplies, but it is kept simple.  You could easily do a spa day like this in your own home with a group of ladies.  Or for a teen girl’s birthday party or girl’s night.  It might even become a tradition everyone looks forward to it each year!


This is a cheese ball my friend Jennifer made for our mom’s group as an appetizer demonstration.  This would be a fun holiday idea!  Snowmen make good “winter” party decorations so you could easily do this for a New Years Party or even Superbowl Party.

Jennifer used a bell pepper cut in “a hat” shape, olives, and a baby carrot.  The recipe is from Taste of Home and is fairly simple to follow.  You do need to refrigerate the cheese ball overnight (or at least 8 hours).  And it’s tastes delicious with crackers!

 


I had three Christmas parties last week, two evening meetings, and one get together with friends plus I started running again and clocked in around 12 miles total last week. So that’s why I have gone MIA from this blog the past couple days.  I have found some great holiday crafts, foods, and activities over the last few days.  I am starting with this mini gingerbread house…

This is a small gingerbread house my daughter brought home from school.  Each of the 1st graders made their own using a small milk carton to hold up the graham cracker walls.  Each child had to bring candy for their own house.  We just went through leftover baking items and even Halloween candy.  This is what my oldest came up with.I never grew up making gingerbread houses.  This tradition came from my husband.  I never realized the time, efforts, and patience it takes…not to mention massive amounts of frosting.  For preschoolers with busy hands and a short attention span, a milk carton graham cracker house is a good alternative.

Another activity I did which might become a tradition is I set a Christmas tea for my daughter and her best friend.  I got a tiny Christmas tea set years ago second-hand and never used it.   I put little snacks on the tiny plates and filled the tea-pot with apple juice.  My daughter and her best friend loved having their own special Christmas tea.  I set it up in our upstairs guest room where they would be free from the distractions of younger siblings.



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