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As much as people will tell you that Christmas letters are old-fashioned are should be replaced with e-cards and Facebook messages, don’t believe them!  I think everyone enjoys going to their mailbox during the holiday season and receiving cards, letters, and photos from all over the country from friends and relatives.  We love wall papering our fridge in December with photos and we have saved every single Christmas letter from friends and family since 2003!

I realize not everyone likes to write.  Putting together a Christmas letter might give you the same anxiety you received when your English teacher asked you to write in your creative writing journal on a topic of her choosing.  You don’t have to be a published author.  Here are few tips from me–a very amateur writer–but who loves a good Christmas letter.

1)  Start with a good lead.  In this age of texting, Twitter, and Facebook statuses, we all have short attention spans.  People read the first few sentences of an article and if it doesn’t pull them in–they move on.  Not to say they are going to junk your Christmas letter.  However, they will be enticed by some interesting beginning words.  Start with a story, a good quote, or something sentimental.  Avoid clichés like “Where did the time go?” or “It’s that time of year to write the typical Christmas letter.”

2)  Keep it short.  One page maybe two at the most is a good length.  Don’t tell your life story.  Write a memoir instead.  Write your first draft without being too concerned about length.  Then go back and cut out the least important parts.

3)  Don’t say negative things about your spouse/kids!  If your six-year-old is struggling in spelling or eight year old scored zero goals in soccer or your twelve-year-old has a crush on the principal’s daughter–don’t say it in a Christmas letter!  You think you would never do it, I know!  Sometimes we resort to teasing to create humor.  Often we don’t realize we look kind of silly and usually lose respect from the ones we love.

4)  Don’t let it read like a grid.  Writing what you did each month of the year is a great idea.  I have written many Christmas letters with this type of theme.  But make sure it doesn’t read like, “And then we did this…and then we went here.”  It helps to use different verbs and keep sentences to the point.

5)  Keep it real.  Some people criticize letters because they can be…well…a little fake.  You had a great year, really?  Didn’t you lose your job?  Unless you are sending a letter to just a close select few, don’t go into detail about your problems.  Share what happened especially if it was significant (someone dying, husband serving in Afghanistan, being diagnosed with a disease…).  You could even thank your friends for their support and prayers.  Think about it. If you send a Christmas letter to your old college roommate and your only contact is the annual Christmas letter, do they need to know this?  Ask yourself:  Why do they need to know this if I didn’t tell them when I was going through it?

And if you really don’t want to write the annual Christmas letter, ask someone else to do it!  One year we got a family letter written by the twelve-year-old in the family and it was precious.   Or have each family member write a paragraph.  Just make it fun!


This is our family pet:  a short-haired gray colored female feline named Salena.  We fostered her through our local humane society around this time three years ago. and then adopted her.  People who come to our house comment how easy-going she is–never scratches people, non-aggressive, never nips, and puts up with three very busy children who have been known to use her as a pillow.

She is strictly indoors.

This Saturday we went garage saling as a family.  We returned home and started making lunch for the kids.  I heard this constant “meowing” almost like the cat was trapped inside something.  I opened every single door, cabinet, and closet.  No cat.  The meowing continued.

“She’s in the walls!”  I declared.

So I asked my husband who we should call.  Who do you call when your cat is trapped in the walls? My husband went up in the attic and crawled over the insulation putting his hand in every crevice while I did “a google search.”  Then I remembered we had been on vacation which probably stressed the cat out.  And our yard currently looks like this…

New siding and windows.  Lots of pounding, drilling, and extra noise during the day.  It spooked her.

No success in the attic.  We can’t hear her meowing in the attic but we can hear her downstairs.  Did she slip so far she is embedded in the walls?  The thought of having to put a hole in the wall and retrieve a dead cat while dealing with the smell would probably traumatize our three children…and myself included.

I call the fire department.  The gentlemen on the phone is very sweet, but said there is not much to do.  He suggest leaving food out and says most cats who can get in strange places can find their way out.

My husband goes outside and sees Salena darting across the yard.  She is jittery and spooked and runs away.

The meowing in the house stops.

So now we’re sitting on the patio and we safely assume our cat ran away and is gone forever.  My daughter is sobbing.  I am crying too.  My husband who never had the greatest affection for the cat decides to drive around the neighborhood and look for her.

An hour later we’re sitting in the house and we all hear meowing again.  We’re happy she did not run away but irritated we can’t figure out where she is.  My husband says, “That’s it.  I’m going back in the attic.”

I go into the garage and go into the furnace closet.  The meowing is stronger.  When I yell “Salena!” and bang on the wall, it intensifies.  Then I realize the sound is not coming from the wall, or the ceiling, but the floor.

So now my husband have to wedge this little door open (I only knew it was there because the cable guy had to go under our house about a year ago) and go under our house amidst all these pipes and wires.  I was grateful I was not feeling claustrophobic.  We had to army crawl and we were filthy dirty like we had been working in a cave.

Needless to say it took a couple tries, but we got her.  She would only come to me.  Now she is safe and sound.

We still have no idea how she got in there.  Our best guess is there a little small opening from where the chords from the air conditioner go under the house.  We just got new sliding glass doors and the kids have not been great about shutting them all the way.  We think she got outside and got confused on how to get back in.

My friends at the humane society shared that if your cat is stressed from extra noises from construction, keep him/her in a confined room while the workers are present.  They recommended getting a sedative from the vet if she gets too jittery or paranoid.  Your cat will “act out of character” if she/he is stressed as we experienced firsthand.

It wasn’t the way I wanted to spend a Saturday, but I am glad it had a happy ending.

 


Vacation is absolutely wonderful, but it is great to be in a routine again.  I actually got out of bed at 6:30 AM and exercised.  Which was a good thing because everyone and their mother was out running or biking.  Our town is supposed to get hit with the high 90′s all week.  Us Pacific Northwest dwellers are not used to heat nor humidity.  Thank goodness for central air…though I would trade it in for a pool.  Here is what we are eating this week…

Monday:  Macaroni and Tuna Casserole and brown sugar glazed carrots

Tuesday:  Meatloaf (husband is trying a new recipe)

Wednesday:  Gumbo (also made by the husband–one of my favorites!)

Thursday:  Summer Chicken Stir Fry (and hopefully using some veggies from the garden if they ripen by then!)

Friday: Parents Date Night (if we get a babysitter)

Saturday:  Hot Dog over the fire pit in the backyard

Sunday:  Dinner on your own

I’m linking this with MPM


I love beach vacations that have very little agenda except for playing in the sand, swimming, reading a book, conversations, and relaxation.

And I love Canada!  I am a full blooded American married to a Canadian.

I love taking my time getting home and stopping to see beautiful sights along the way.

Such as Mount Saint Helens.  My first time seeing it up close.

But I also love coming home!  Even if the outside of my house currently looks like this.  New siding will be put on very soon.

And new windows too!

Our cat is always happy to see us.  I wonder if she misses us while we are away or wonders if we are going to come back.

I love it when kids are so tired that they ask to be put to bed at 7:00 PM.  Or they just fall asleep during supper.

Of the past sixteen nights, I have spent only two in my own bed.  The rest were spent in Philadelphia, Washington, and British Columbia.  It’s good to be home again.


I have been taking a short hiatus from Everyday Mom.  For the past week I had the incredible opportunity to travel to Philadelphia along with fifteen other people.  Our task was simple:  to learn about community development from church planters while participating in a camp for 10-14 year olds at By Grace Alone Church.  This is not just an activity driven camp.  This camp is called Business Boot Camp and the kids learn about entrapeneurship, employment, risk-taking, teamwork, and more.  It was amazing to be a part of it!

It’s part of a project my church started called the Salem/Philly Connect.  Basically we sent a team to inner city Philly to learn about community outreach.  In 2012, the Philly church will send a team to us here in Oregon.  You can read more about how this project got started, why we felt God calling us to do it, how it is totally different than your average church mission trip, and how it impacted our lives.

We hope to do a few fundraisers throughout the year to send some of our new Philly friends to Oregon next summer to help us with summer outreach projects.  Stay tuned.

Now I am getting ready to leave on a much needed vacation.  Everyday Mom may be a little quiet until I return.

 


In the summer of 2003, my husband and I (we did not have kids yet) lived in rural South Dakota surrounded by cattle ranches.  When I say “rural,” I mean dirt sometimes rock covered roads and the nearest grocery store a good twenty minutes away.  We could not see a single house from our driveway.

We met many wonderful cattle ranchers and farmers who did not talk about the weather the same way us city folk do.  They prayed often for rain.  A dry spell meant a loss of cows or crops that slowed business down that affected providing for their families.  These people cared for their cows and took pride in them.  Well cared for cows produce good meat and milk. A loss of a cow is not just a revenue loss.  It’s like a business man losing a piece of his building to a fire or tornado.

I cannot imagine what they are going through now with this drought hitting most of the Midwest and Great Plains.  My denomination, the Christian Reformed Church (CRC) is asking everyone to pray for rain this Sunday and all the Sundays following.  Here are some of the facts from an e-mail sent to pastors in the CRC as well an article from my local newspaper:  the Statesman Journal.

  •  55% of the country was in a moderate to extreme drought by the end of June 2012.
  •  The Midwest has experienced the 14th warmest and 10th driest June on record.
  •  The percentage of affected land is the largest since December of 1956
  •  1/3 of the nation’s corn crop has been hurt.
  •  2/3 of the state of Illinois is in a severe drought.  70% of Indiana is in severe drought as well.
  •  More than 1,000 counties in the United States have been declared disaster areas.

“Times like these remind us that we are completely dependent on God. And that God has told us that he wants us to come to him with our needs and petitions.” – Reverend Joel R Boot (Executive Director of the CRCNA)


I ran my first marathon in Portland in 2006.  To be honest, I did not enjoy very much of it.  It was more challenging than I ever imagined.  In December of 2010, I ran my second marathon in Sacramento.  Someone asked me why I was doing it a marathon if I did not like it the first time around.  I said, “Because I want to try it again.  I think it could go better the second time around.”  And it did.  At the time I had a five-year old, three-year old, and one year old and I needed a weekend alone.  So a weekend in Sacramento running in the California International Marathon plus lots of alone time, reading, eating out, meeting fellow runners was a good thing.

Now I have to tell you that three times is a charm.  Running in Seattle last weekend was even better!

Warning this post is very long!  I want to share my whole experience.  For those thinking about trying a marathon, please contact me if you have any questions.  I am a high school track drop-out.  I struggled to run a full mile when I took up running in 2000.  I never believed I could do this.  But I can.  And you might love it as much I do.

We left Friday afternoon. We had to be at the Runner’s Expo no later than 7 PM so I could pick up my racing packet.  I kept reading the lines on the Final Information directions, “You must pick it up by Friday.  NO EXCEPTIONS.”  If anyone has ever lived near a big city, you recall how unpredictable traffic can be.  I recall the time it took Rob three hours to drive from Cellular Field in Chicago to my workplace in Gary, Indiana (the same amount of time it can take to drive from Chicago to Michigan on a normal day).  We could not get on the road until 11:30 AM due to morning obligations, but thankfully we only hit traffic in Tacoma and then into Seattle–it was not the prolonged stand-still never-ending kind.

Of course it was cold, pouring rain.  Does it ever NOT rain in Seattle?  I was grateful I packed rain coats for all three kids.  We had to pay ten bucks to park, but we found a spot.  After parading around the expo, we took three hungry, thirsty, and somewhat exhausted kids to our motel about ten minutes from downtown.

We stayed fairly close to the University of Washington by a massive shopping mall with fun stores we don’t have here in Salem.  But no time for shopping.  We enjoyed a family dinner at the RAM Brewery.  This was a highlight for me.  As we were eating together, coloring kid’s menus, and glancing at the Track and Field Olympic trials on the TV, I realized how much easier it is going out to eat in a sit down restaurant versus a year ago.  I recall visits to Red Robin or Applebeeswith kids constantly playing with everything on the table, crying, climbing on everything, and not wanting to sit for more than two minutes.

The youngest getting ready for bed. Can I just say how nice it is not to have to drag a Pack and Play on trips anymore!?

The two oldest watching a movie in bed.

Watching TV together in bed

After dinner it was getting close to 8 PM.  We had to get up at 5:15 AM.  Rob told me I was in charge of setting the alarms.  He said he would set six alarms.  I had to laugh because anytime we have to catch an early flight, alarms keep going off every five minutes.  I set three.

Rob was a really good sport with all the driving, dodging traffic, finding places to park, and entertaining three crazy kiddos.

It took some stern warnings and lots of shushing before the kids settled down.  Rob and I watched TV on his iPad in the motel bathroom…doesn’t get any more romantic than that.  Even though I was in bed at 10, I probably woke up every hour.  At 1:30 AM, the youngest was stirring.  She is all the over bed when she sleeps.  Plus the room was way too hot.  I put the fan on cool and managed to get a few more hours of sleep.  My mental alarm woke me up twenty minutes before the first alarm sounded.

Ready to rock and roll!

Everyone was up by 5:15 AM.  We managed to get everyone dressed in the car by 5:40 AM.  I munched on a granola bar and downed a thing of Gatorade.  Nerves were pretty intense by that point.  We did not hit traffic until we hit the I-5 off ramp.  Then we were in stand still traffic.  I think we went a mere mile in twenty minutes.  It was at that point the youngest started coughing and the gagging quickly turned into vomit.  I hate throw up in the car–there is nothing worse.  So I am grabbing baby wipes trying not to get any on me.  Running 26.2 miles smelling like vomit?  No way.  Disgusting.  Then I am freaking out to the point of tears.  What if she has a stomach bug and what if I am getting it too?  How can I run 26.2 miles if I have a stomach bug?  My stomach hurts right now.  But is it just nerves?  I tend to be a little bit of a drama queen when it comes to stomach bugs and illness.

And we’re not getting any closer to the starting line.  Roads are starting to block off.  It’s 6:20 AM.  I see droves of runners walking towards the Seattle Center.  So I jump out of the van, grab an apple, and follow them.  Rob takes the kids back to the hotel for breakfast and rest.

I get to the Seattle Center and there are thousands of people, but not a single sign directing runners.  Where in the world is the gear check?  I ask six people and the sixth person knows and says I can follow her.  We make our way all the way to the complete other side of the Seattle Center and check in our gear.  I make my way back checking the clock.  It’s 6:45 AM.  Fifteen minutes until start time.  Do I have time to go to the bathroom?  I HAVE TO go to the bathroom.  I go into one of the buildings.  The bathroom line is somewhat decent. I will take the flush toilet over the port a potty any day.  I overhear someone say it’s a wave start for the race.  You start with your group number.  If you miss your group, you just join the next one.  I’m in Group #20.  That explains why some of these people are not in a hurry even though the gun is going off in less than fifteen minutes.

I make my way to my group.  Originally I said I would finish the race around 4:15 hence why I am in this group, but I wanted to shoot for four hours.  The 4:15 pace group is right in front of me.  Do I want to try and catch up to the 4 hour group?  Stick with the 4:15 group?  Or ditch the pacers and run my own pace?  In my previous marathon, I was having a difficult time keeping up with the 4:15 group.  They were about seven minutes ahead of me.  I have trained better this around and my pace is faster.

Waiting for my group to start was probably the worst of it.  When I am nervous, I just need to talk to someone.  Anyone.  I found a group from Boise to talk to and then some American Cancer Society runners.  We waited about twenty minutes before we could start, but it felt so much longer than that.

Then we finally got to start and were running through the streets of Seattle.  I realized how eclectic the race crowd was–people in banana costumes, tutus, and brightly colored socks.  Tons of charity runners from the American Cancer Society, Leukemia/Lymphoma Society, and a group running for fallen soldiers dominated the crowds.  Bands lined the course and cheerleaders dressed in bright tie dye outfits.

By around mile five we were exiting out of the city and closer to Seward Park which was by far my favorite part of the race.  It was a beautiful park along the bay with a beach waterfront.  It was at this point I caught up to the 4:15 pacer.  A few other women were running with her. She was a petite lady with a thick Australian accent.  She was so peppy and upbeat.  I discovered most of the pace runners were stay at home moms to young children.  Most of them had run marathons before and continued the hobby like myself.  We swapped marathon stories, talked about our kids, and the places we lived. We even had a great conversation about working with middle schoolers.  Our pace leader is a middle school principal.  These ladies really carried me through most of the race.  I was grateful for them.

After the park, we were back on regular city streets and then up the ramp to the I 90 (which they close off–no way we’d run side by side with big semi trucks).  By this point I was having “the runner dilemma” of whether to stop at the bathroom or keep treading along.  I was impressed this marathon had a massive amount of port a potties along the course.  Too often there are a few and the line is long.  So I made a pit stop because there was no wait.  I managed to increase my speed again and catch up to the 4:15 crowd about  a half hour and approximately three miles later.

We were heading in the other direction now on the I 90 hitting the tunnels one by one.  We would soon take the down ramp and run by Century Link field.  It was about Mile #19.  I was running slightly ahead of the 4:15 group.  At one point I could not even see them behind me.  Once I stopped at an aid station and walked very briefly, they always passed me until I caught up.  By that point most of us were quiet focusing on the run.  One step in front of the other.  The next mile to the next and the next.  You don’t really think about anything at that point–just keep moving.  It is almost more difficult to stop and then start again than it is to keep running non-stop.

By the last mile one of the 4:15 girls took off and wished me luck.  The pace leader encouraged me through the last mile.  I told her my right knee was hurting and right thigh starting to ache, but there was no way I was stopping.  I was going to keep going.  Even up the killer hill a breath away from the finish line.  Who puts a hill by the finish line!?  We finished together side by side.  Final time?  4:11:22!  Not breaking four hours, but a personal PR.  My time in Portland was 4:38:00 and Sacramento was 4:22:00.

The crowds were so massive!

When I finished my first marathon I was angry and frustrated.  When I finished my second I was giddy and thrilled.  When I finished my third I cried!  Apparently my husband and the kids watched me finish.  There was such a massive crowd and my mind was focused on pushing forward–I did not even see them.

After being handed water, Gatorade, bagels, smoothies, chocolate milk, and a space blanket, I meandered over to gear check.  I grabbed my cell phone and celebrated with my family over the phone.  Then I had to try and find them which turned into a game of cat and mouse.  He put the kids in the van and was in bumper to bumper traffic.  I can hardly walk faster than a turtle’s pace and I am trying to figure out how to get to Denny Way.  I heard other runners on their phones saying, “I’m all turned around.  I don’t know where I am.”  It took some back and forth driving and walking, but we finally found one another.  The only thing on our agenda was getting out of the city.  Especially because the near perfect warm, sunnyish weather quickly turned into a downpour.  I am so thankful the rain came after I had already finished.

So thankful for my little cheering section

 

There were just over 3,000 marathon runners and 14,000 half marathoners.  It was a BIG event.  I was grateful and blessed I could be a part of it.  I realize I can do something not everyone can do.  I do not take it for granted.  It is a gift and opportunity God has blessed me with.

What’s next?  I am walking all this week and getting into the pool a little as my body recooperates.  Then we’ll see. Maybe some biking, weight training, and a little running again.  Maybe another marathon in the future.

No pictures of the actual race yet.  I have to surf through all the professional photos they took of us.  It is very difficult for my husband to keep tabs on the kids and take pictures at the same time.  I did see some runners taking their cameras with them on the race.  I might have to do that next time.


I recently returned from Michigan.  I am a news correspondent with the Banner magazine.  We have a conference every two years typically in Grand Rapids with all the other news writers.  Grand Rapids is one of  my hometowns.  I lived there from 1989 – 2000 and then from 2005 – 2006. Part of my visit included spending time with family members who live there and reconnecting with old friends.

When you return to a place from your past, hundreds of memories flood your mind.  Things that you do not think about on a given day.  My friend Tricia and I explored Kuyper campus where we both went to college.  I graduated from there in 2000.

This is the very spot where my husband Rob and I had our first conversation.  It was following a 90′s style Coffeehouse/Talent Show.  He was talking to a mutual friend.  We began conversing together.  I walked back to my dorm room thinking, “He seems really nice.  I could date him.”  He walked back to his room thinking, “She seems really nice, but she’ll never date me because she’s a senior.”  Rob was a freshmen.Rob and I were married on May 19, 2001 in Kuyper’s chapel.  This is the room where I got ready on my wedding day.  It was not a cardio room at the time!  It was a big open room where we would watch movies on Friday nights.  Apparently Rob started watching Judge Judy in here on afternoons.  He acquired a few Judge Judy followers who watched it together on a regular basis.I also ventured out to Fruitport, Michigan where I lived from 2001 – 2004.  It is a cute little town seven miles from the Lake Michigan shoreline.  One of my closest friends Beth lives there.  I miss eating large bowls of ice cream and watching silly teen movies with her.  She is a mom to two beautiful kids she adopted from Ethiopia.

This is what Tulip Time is going to look this year!  While in Oregon we got a cold and flooding winter, Michigan had one of the warmest on record.  The tulips all bloomed way too early!

And I always love hanging around Calvin College where our conference took place.  Calvin is my other “alma mater” where I spent my first two years of college.  My siblings, parents, various aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents are all Calvin alumni.  I broke the trend by graduating from Kuyper.  I am forever grateful for the two years spent at Calvin–some of the best years of college.

Now that I have lived in Oregon for almost six years I see how I have shredded some of my “Michigander” identity and have become immersed in the Pacific Northwest culture.  Or else I have become a bit more well rounded.  There are parts of Michigan I will always miss, but I am grateful to return to Oregon which is the place I refer to as “home.”


Whether you are venturing south to balmy Florida or west to sunny southern California, a Disney vacation is a must at some point in the life of your family.  I have done both Disney parks as a child, young adult, and as a mom.  You can move faster, get more rides in, and see the afternoon parades without little children.  However, there is something magical about seeing your preschooler’s face light up when he sees Donald Duck for the first time or hear your toddler daughter giggle on the Little Mermaid Ride or hear you first grader squeal with delight on Big Thunder Mountain Railroad.

We recently returned from Disneyland.  My husband and my parents along with my three children (ages 6 1/2, 4 1/2, and 2 1/2) spent three days at Disneyland along with a few extra days exploring southern California.  On our last night in our hotel, we put together a list of tips for future Disney goers.   These are some of the things my mom, my husband, and I came up with…

Bring in your own food!  Some theme parks are sticklers for bringing in outside food and drink.  Disneyland is not.  We saved a lot of money by making sandwiches. We even took jelly packets from the breakfast buffet in our hotel.  Both parks (Disneyland & California’s Great Adventure) have locker rental.  We paid $7.00 for the day which was well worth it.

It’s not a bad idea to rent a stroller.  Stroller rentalis $15.00.  We took a fold-up umbrella style stroller from home for our two year old.  On the last day we rented an additional stroller for our four-year old.  Instead of renting a locker we carried our food bag in the stroller. The only downside with putting a four-year in a stroller (and it might be unique to our four-year old) is it gave him something else to play with.  We constantly had to tell him to sit on it properly and not push it into people.  The extra “item” to juggle did try our patience at times.

Our lodging choice:  I would highly recommend the motel we stayed in:  the Staybridge Suites in Anaheim.  We were able to take a bus to and from Disneyland.  Busses ran every 20 minutes or so until 12:30 am. You can purchase bus tickets at the bus stop or at the hotel desk.  There was a big breakfast every single morning.  Some motels that serve breakfast have cramped eating quarters.  This was not the case.  It was a large dining room and lots of high chairs for little ones.  They also serve a light supper (such as meatball subs, hot dogs, and nachos) Monday through Thursday for two hours in the evening.  We saved money on dinners by eating at the motel.  Staybridge also had free laundry and a large outdoor pool and hot tub.

Leave enough time for Disney California Adventure:  This is the park adjacent to Disneyland that was built about eleven years ago.  We found it much less crowded especially in the morning.  We had little to no wait on rides until after lunch.  There are lots of toddler/preschool friendly rides.  If we had an extra day, we probably would have spent more time here.

Scheduling Naps:  We tried to get to parks between 9:30 AM and 10 AM and our younger two were “done” by 2:30 PM.  We often left, put kids down for naps, and returned after supper.  We were able to catch some of the night shows and go on one or two more rides.  We found lines for rides are still long even after 8 PM.  There is a “night life” at Disney and many stick around until the parks close. 

Make your own autograph books:  There are Disney characters everywhere (mostly on Main Street USA) and this was a highlight for all three of our kids.  Instead of spending extra money on autograph books, my mom made some with my daughters as a little craft.  She  used a foam notebook (could find at a dollar store or craft store) and the girls put foam stickers on it.  My oldest also used it as a journal of our trip.

And last always leave room for the “unplanned.”  In 2000 my husband (who was my fiance at the time), parents, brother, and my brother’s best friend spent four days at Walt Disney World.  When all was said and done we spent a night in a motel in Atlanta, did catapult jumps off one another in the pool, and watched the Stanley Cup finals.  I remember my brother saying that was just as fun (and memorable) as the four jam-packed days at Disney.  Your kids will appreciate the times sitting around the pool, going out to eat, coloring in the motel room, and going out for breakfast.   Leave room for those moments.


This is a Frugal Friday Saturday post.  I was going to finish editing this post on Thursday and post it on Friday.  We were staying in a beautiful hotel in Seattle this weekend attending a conference.  Like we have found with a lot of nice hotels, some of the small perks have a price attached to them.  Wireless Internet had a fee.  We joked about running across the street to the Super 8 and using their free Wi Fi in the lobby, but we didn’t feel right in doing that.  But no problem, better late than never!

We are departing for Disneyland next week. These are some fabulous tips that mostly came from my dear friend Christina who was at Disney three weeks ago with her kids.  I wanted to remember them and share them with you all…

1)  Take Crystal Light On the Go packs to pour into your water bottles.  This will save you from spending extra money on drinks with your meal.  You will not need to purchase bottled water or pop.  Many restaurants and pop machines in theme parks charge more on beverages than what you would pay outside of the park.  Drinking pop when you are in the hot sun will only make you thirstier anyway.

2)  Buy your own glow sticks/glow bands from the dollar store before your trip.  If you go to a laser light show or fireworks at places like Disneyland, vendors everywhere will be selling them.  And you will pay much more if you buy them in the park. And my kids are young enough that they won’t care.

3)  Buy Disney character t-shirts before your trip from department stores.  My girls are all about Disney princesses and you can find character shirts at stores like Old Navy or Kohls.  My kids each have about two to three shirts to wear for the first time on our vacation.

4)  Use restaurant gift cards for eating out.  If you get restaurant gift cards as gifts, save them for when you are on vacation.  You can also earn restaurant gifts cards if you utilize Swagbucks.

5)  Make a meal plan and take along recipes.  If you are staying in a place where you are able to cook, make a meal plan!  That way you do not over buy with groceries.  And take along easy family friendly recipes.  The beauty of traveling with multiple families is each person can take “a night” and cook a meal for everyone.  That way it still feels like vacation for the rest.

I am linking this up with Life As Mom Frugal Friday



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